Love & Dating

“Should I block my ex’s number and social media?” It’s a good question, and some people would say to simply block the ex and be done with it. But it’s not so simple.

If you’ve been using Tinder for any amount of time, you’ll probably be asking yourself something along the lines of: “Does Tinder suck just for me, or for everybody else?” Tinder sucks for pretty much everybody. Most common reasons are the poor quality of conversations or too much focus on physical attractiveness and not on …

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Casual dating apps like Tinder, Hinge or Badoo have a very “quantity vs. quality” approach to matching people. There’s generally very little information available to figure out someone’s personality or what kind of relationship they’re looking for. It’s simply too random. eHarmony and Christian Mingle are very different from casual dating apps since they focus …

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Does he want a serious relationship? Should you wait or move on? The best and most enjoyable relationships are those where both people have a “hell yes!” attitude at the thought of being with another person. People committed to a relationship (both guys and girls) give off a strong sense of emotional intimacy, safety, and …

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Limerence definition, meaning and comparison to love Limerence is the emotional state of uncontrollable obsession and infatuation for a particular person, called the Limerent Object, coupled with a desire to obtain their emotional commitment and begin a relationship with them. It was coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, after a research period that involved interviews with …

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So you find yourself dating a white man or a black woman for the first time, and are wondering what to expect. At least in the United States, statistics show that interracial relationships are still a small (but growing) minority. In other words, you’re special! As a rule it seems, most people prefer to date …

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What is unconditional love In its true, semantic meaning unconditional love equals affection without any sort of limitation. Love simply flows towards someone (or even an ideal) without any sort of restraint. One might even call it “true love”. But this definition raises some tough possibilities that beg the question: “without any limits? Seriously?”.

Is it worth waiting for someone you love? Most people would say it is a black and white problem: “never wait for someone, you are too precious to do that; if they love you, they will come”. Self-respect is an awesome thing to have. But there are some situations which are truly hard to navigate …

5 Reasons To Wait for Someone You Love (and 5 not to) Read More »

Face to face beats video chat beats phone calls beats messaging Humans are creatures of habit and comfort, and one bad routine you may risk falling into is to simply text all day long. Text works as a way of keeping in touch, but try to physically meet however often you possibly can. Whatever you …

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