Does he want a serious relationship or is he using you? The real problem with this question is that by overthinking you run the real risk of chasing away the good guys, attracting the bad ones or misinterpreting a breakup as him using you. Sometimes, good guys show some behaviors typical of players who just …
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“I can’t stop thinking about my ex” – this isn’t the phrase people like to attach to a breakup. Breakups are almost always painful, even the ones that end bad or toxic relationships. In these cases, you’d think a person would finally be happy for cutting contact with a negative element in their lives. You …
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Limerence definition, meaning and comparison to love Limerence is the emotional state of uncontrollable obsession and infatuation for a particular person, called the Limerent Object, coupled with a desire to obtain their emotional commitment and begin a relationship with them. It was coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, after a research period that involved interviews with …
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“Should I block my ex’s number and social media?” It’s a good question, and some people would say to simply block the ex and be done with it. But it’s not so simple.
So you find yourself dating a white man or a black woman for the first time, and are wondering what to expect. At least in the United States, statistics show that interracial relationships are still a small (but growing) minority. In other words, you’re special! As a rule it seems, most people prefer to date …
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Is it worth waiting for someone you love? Most people would say it is a black and white problem: “never wait for someone, you are too precious to do that; if they love you, they will come”. Self-respect is an awesome thing to have. But there are some situations which are truly hard to navigate …
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What is unconditional love In its true, semantic meaning unconditional love equals affection without any sort of limitation. Love simply flows towards someone (or even an ideal) without any sort of restraint. One might even call it “true love”. But this definition raises some tough possibilities that beg the question: “without any limits? Seriously?”.
If you are like me, you’ve probably been taught that fulfillment in one’s personal life means connecting with someone who you love and loves you back, marrying them and creating a stable and happy family. It seems so simple and natural, something inherently human and common to all of us. But is it? Sex at …
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