Love

If you’ve been using Tinder for any amount of time, you’ll probably be asking yourself something along the lines of: “Does Tinder suck just for me, or for everybody else?” Tinder sucks for pretty much everybody. Most common reasons are the poor quality of conversations or too much focus on physical attractiveness and not on …

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Does he want a serious relationship or is he using you? It can be a tricky question to answer. By overthinking it, you might end up chasing away the good guys. Ignore too many red flags however, and you risk getting emotionally invested in the bad ones. The best way to tell what a guy …

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“I can’t stop thinking about my ex” – this isn’t the phrase people like to attach to a breakup. Breakups are almost always painful, even the ones that end bad or toxic relationships. In these cases, you’d think a person would finally be happy for cutting contact with a negative element in their lives. You …

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Limerence definition, meaning and comparison to love Limerence is the emotional state of uncontrollable obsession and infatuation for a particular person, called the Limerent Object, coupled with a desire to obtain their emotional commitment and begin a relationship with them. It was coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov, after a research period that involved interviews with …

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“Should I block my ex’s number and social media?” It’s a good question, and some people would say to simply block the ex and be done with it. But it’s not so simple.

So you find yourself dating a white man or a black woman for the first time, and are wondering what to expect. At least in the United States, statistics show that interracial relationships are still a small (but growing) minority. In other words, you’re special! As a rule it seems, most people prefer to date …

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Is it worth waiting for someone you love? Most people would say it is a black and white problem: “never wait for someone, you are too precious to do that; if they love you, they will come”. Self-respect is an awesome thing to have. But there are some situations which are truly hard to navigate …

5 Reasons To Wait for Someone You Love (and 5 not to) Read More »

What is unconditional love In its true, semantic meaning unconditional love equals affection without any sort of limitation. Love simply flows towards someone (or even an ideal) without any sort of restraint. One might even call it “true love”. But this definition raises some tough possibilities that beg the question: “without any limits? Seriously?”.